Positive
affirmations improve your self confidence. Strengthen
your self esteem with positive thinking. Replace the
damaging negative thoughts with beneficial positive
thoughts. Improve your quality of life and self
confidence.
Positive thinking is a great tool to improve your self
esteem. Most people take comments very personal. If
someone says something rude to us, or criticizes us, we
tend to hold on to it for a very long time. It is
extremely difficult for us to let it go, and we
automatically consider it. Was he right? Did she actually
have a point? Is that really how people see me?
In some cases it will benefit us to listen to these
comments if there actually is some truth in what is being
said, and it is something about our behavior we have to
change, for instance if we behave in a certain way that
damage other people or ourselves. But in most cases it is
just garbage comments that hold absolutely no truth in
them, and only help to destroy our confident.
That is where positive affirmations and positive
self-hypnotic thoughts will help for our self improvement.
We have to be able to sort out what is beneficial comments
and what is just damaging to our self esteem and self
confidence. But it can sometimes be difficult to ignore
these hard and rude comments, because we are so afraid
that they are right.
We cannot expect the world to strengthen our confident and
self esteem, so it has to be up to us instead. They say
that you should be your own best friend, and it is true.
So many people and so many experiences through life will
try to make us feel like failures. And if you also become
one of those self-damaging people, who will be there to
save you from yourself?
It is therefore crucial that you change the way that you
perceive yourself in order to feel good enough and more
confident. You just have to eliminate the negative
thoughts that you hold about yourself which are damaging
to your self esteem. Instead you have to replace them with
positive thoughts. Positive thinking and self-hypnotic
thinking are nothing new and you have probably heard it
many times before. But that does not make it any less
true.
So do this confidence boost exercise two times a day. In
the morning before starting your day and in the evening
before sleeping.
Relax
your body in a comfortable posture. You can lie down or
sit up. Close your eyes and take a deep breath. Feel how
your body becomes more and more relaxed for every breath
that you take. Take another long slow deep breath in
through your nose, and hold it for a second. When you let
go, feel your body become even more relaxed and even more
comfortable.
Just
focus on your breathing for about 5 minutes. Just
take long deep breaths and feel your body becoming
more relaxed. When you are totally relaxed and
your mind is still, say to yourself these lines
three times each or more if necessary. You have to
believe it when you say it.
-I have a lot to give the world
-I love my body and I treat it with respect
-I love people and I love my life
-I feel comfortable showing people the real
me
-I am a positive person and nothing can
change that
-I forgive the people that do me wrong
-I forgive myself and allow myself to be
happy
-I am a loveable person
-I treat myself and others with respect
-I am good enough for the world and for
myself
-I love myself with all my heart
-I will eliminate all damaging thoughts and
make room for the beneficial
-I am a strong and confident person
-I start every day with a positive attitude
-I am a great person with a loving
personality
Open
your eyes and allow yourself to feel great and
peaceful. Have confident in yourself and keep
these lines in mind during the day. In time it
will feel more natural.